FROM THE TREE TO THE CROSS

Behind every great man stands a woman who somehow convinced him into becoming that great man.


Men by nature are shaped by their ego, which requires them to never admit they are wrong, which pairs perfectly with women whom by nature, know everything a man is doing wrong.

There is great humor in the contradicting  personalities of men and women, but apparently, it is by design in order to teach us humility, patience, understanding, and of course, love.

In the beggining God created Adam and put him in a garden but he was not alone he had animals, angels and even God for companionship, yet God knew that Adam was missing something and needed more then just companionship in order to grow and mature, he needed something to make him vulnerable and give him a different perspective in order to keep his ego in check
He needed something to make him even better. He needed someone to love.
So God created Eve from Adam so that she would be a part of him yet seperate and in this way Adam could see and examine himself as though he was another and through their different perspectives learn from each other and how to relate to others and by doing so these two that came from one body and mind and were now separate and independent would become unified they would once again become one.

So, how does that relate to you and your life?
Simply put, if God created Eve to be more then just companionship but  rather a deeper way for Adam to feel and learn and grow, then your “Eve”  is also here for more then just companionship, and it would be wise for you to look differently at your disagreements and arguments that you have with the person who is your other half.
Do you have trouble with your pride or patience? Maybe you have trouble being  considerate of others or refuse to admit when you are wrong or dont know how to communicate or compromise.
You can learn something from each other  because maybe God is using these things that you think are just arguments or obstacles as a way to teach you a lesson about yourself or how to relate to others.
After all, that is why we are here, isn’t it? To become better than who we were and learn from experience to not make the same mistakes. But if we refuse to humble ourselves and learn, then we are no longer growing and becoming better,  we are simply going backward and becoming the Adam that existed before God made Eve.